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Meet Emily

Emily Depke on her wedding day in a white lace gown, being kissed on each cheek by her maid of honor and sister-in-law, both in deep purple strapless bridesmaid dresses.
Christine "Emily" Depke
Nov. 18, 1982 - June 18, 2025

Emily was luminous — in her smile, her warm energy, her friendship, in the way she deeply cared for people. She was one of the good ones, truly, and I know everyone says that. But you don't know my Em.

 

To get respect, you give respect first, to all humans period. That's not just how she lived her life, it's who she was at her core. She was always rooting for you, always wanted to see you win too. She just wanted to be happy, and to bring happiness to everyone around her — and she did.

You know the world is cruel and unfair when the kindest and brightest get taken far too young, with too much life left to live. Emily was known for her kindness and her generosity. She'd find a way to help you, most times with no questions asked. She believed in the goodness of people.

We move forward because if Emily had survived, she would have done anything she could to save the next her — the next family from being annihilated emotionally, financially, and every other way this disease destroys the people it touches. 

You can read Emily’s full obituary on her Tribute Wall at www.filbeckandcann.com.

"To know her, was to love her. She inspires us every day, to be better people, to always choose kindness, and to just keep going."
 

Ride or Die:
The Feature Essay

The story that started ForEm Foundation. Emily's story, told honestly — and the case for the accountability her fight demands. Currently under consideration by national publications.

Tropical Beach Sunset

Our Guiding Light

Emily Depke smiling with arms outstretched in front of a painted angel wings mural
Emily Depke smiling at a restaurant table, wearing a black satin top with lace sleeves and silver hoop earrings, her curly blonde hair down.

These are a few of our favorites — Emily, just being Emily, most with that signature smile, alongside the people she loved most. The ones forever fighting in her name.

We love you, Em.

We miss you every single minute.
You matter, and what happened to you is not okay.
We will make them listen.

Forever Fighting. For You.


 
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